Fast-forward nearly two decades. Jimenez, now 35 and married, is about to earn a bachelor’s degree in anthropology from UC Santa Barbara, the first in his family to graduate from college. “I never thought in a million years that I would have any sort of degree,” he said. “I was very disenchanted with school when I was younger.”

 

Jimenez’s progression from high school dropout to dean’s list scholar eager to attend graduate school is a tale of working-class America, where the slippery dream of a better life rests in a higher education system often seen as remote and inaccessible.

 

“I didn’t know how to go to college,” he said. “My grades were terrible and I didn’t think anyone would accept me, and I thought college was super expensive. Which it is, but I didn’t know anything about grants and scholarships. I didn’t know what financial aid was. I thought your parents had to pay for it, and my parents weren’t going to be able to.”

 

After high school Jimenez, who grew up 15 minutes from Disneyland in La Mirada, found himself working in retail, which led to a job as a bank teller and, eventually, a sales and service position with Chase Bank. The money was good, he said, “but I was kind of miserable doing it.” After a while his health suffered, so he took some time off and underwent therapy for anxiety and depression.

 

He bounced back, but he wasn’t ready to go back. As it happened, his mother-in-law, Kelly Birrell, was struggling to find work. “So she said, ‘OK, I’m going to go back to school then,” ’ he said. “And she kind of dragged me with her.”

 

But before they both enrolled, Birrell found a job. Jimenez, who wasn’t sure he even wanted to go to college, thought he had a way out. His wife, Elizabeth Jimenez, wasn’t having it. “I was like, ‘I don’t want to do this by myself,’ ” he said. “But my wife’s like, ‘No, you’re going.’ ” 

 

He started at Long Beach City College with a couple of subjects he enjoyed, English and history, and figured he’d give it his best shot, though he couldn’t guarantee he’d finish the semester.

 

“A couple of years later,” Jimenez said, “I’d been focusing so much on not failing that I was on the dean’s list and had scholarships left and right. I maintained a 4.0 GPA almost the whole way.”

 

Not surprisingly, he was accepted at multiple universities, and chose UC Santa Barbara for its emphasis on undergraduate education and proximity to family. It was also, by happy coincidence, where his best friend from LBCC, Jessica Lizardo, attended. (Jimenez, in the tradition of good friends everywhere, spells her name “lizard, with an ‘o’ on the end.”)

 

Jimenez has thrived at UCSB through the usual combination of hard work and determination, but he’s also been propelled by a profound sense of gratitude.

 

 

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